Happily Renting: Why We Chose to Rent Our Dream Home Instead of Buying
For years, we thought homeownership was the ultimate goal. After all, that’s what society tells us—buy a house, settle down, and build equity. But guess what? We chose to rent our dream home, a beautifully remodeled 1920s charmer in the heart of the downtown historic district of Murfreesboro, TN. And we couldn’t be happier.
The Perks of Renting Our Dream Home
Renting often gets a bad rap, but for us, it has been the perfect choice. Here’s why:
1. Affordability
While rental prices are certainly on the rise, our rent is still significantly lower than what a mortgage (plus property taxes, homeowners’ insurance, and maintenance costs) would be for a home like ours. Renting allows us to live in a home and neighborhood we adore without the financial burden of ownership.
2. Low Maintenance Living
Owning a home comes with a never-ending to-do list—repairs, renovations, unexpected expenses. As renters, we get to enjoy our beautifully updated vintage home without the stress of fixing a leaky roof or replacing an aging water heater. If something breaks, a quick call to our landlord takes care of it.
3. Historic Charm Without the Upkeep
Our home is a 1920s gem that has been tastefully remodeled while keeping its old-school charm intact—original hardwood floors, gorgeous molding, and large, sun-filled windows. But maintaining a historic home can be costly and time-consuming. Renting allows us to appreciate its beauty without the responsibility of preserving it ourselves.
4. The Perfect Location
Nestled in Murfreesboro’s downtown historic district, our neighborhood feels like a step back in time—in the best way possible. The tree-lined streets and sidewalks remind us of childhood, where kids still ride bikes in the evenings and neighbors stop to chat.
Just a short walk away, we have locally owned coffee shops and diners with outdoor seating, perfect for cool summer evening strolls. The charming downtown square hosts a vibrant farmers’ market every weekend in the spring and summer, where we can grab fresh produce and support local artisans. And let’s not forget Historic Oaklands Mansion, which hosts events year-round, adding to the cultural richness of our community.
5. Flexibility and Freedom
Life changes, and renting gives us the flexibility to adapt without being tied down to a mortgage. If we ever decide to move or explore new opportunities, we can do so without the stress of selling a house in an unpredictable market.
A Wonderful Place to Call Home
Whether you’re raising a family or enjoying life as an empty nester, our neighborhood offers the perfect balance of nostalgia and modern convenience. Renting has allowed us to embrace this lifestyle without the long-term financial and maintenance commitments of homeownership. And for us, that’s a dream come true.
So, if you’ve ever felt pressured to buy a home because it’s “the thing to do,” remember—home is where you’re happiest, whether you own it or not.
10 Comments
Mary Anne
I agree that renting can be a great choice for housing. Especially with the cost of maintenance and upkeep!
Melonie
Thanks for your comment Mary Anne, it’s definitely a great choice for us!
Colleen
Great post and valid points on the advantages of renting your dream home. Opens up more options for more people!
Melonie
I agree Colleen, sometimes there’s a need to just ‘borrow’ the American Dream!
Sharon
You make some very valid points. Buying isn’t everything. There are a lot of valid reasons to rent instead. Thanks for the insight.
Melonie
You are welcome Sharon, thanks for your comment.
Domii
Such a refreshing perspective! We get so caught up in that idea of home ownership that we can get stuck in a vicouis circle as well. Home isn’t about ownership—it’s about finding a place that fits your lifestyle and brings you joy. Renting can be just as fulfilling as owning, and it’s great to see that being celebrated! This is something I’m considering for the future because of the flexibility and freedom it offers
Melonie
Thank you so much Domii! You totally get it—home is about feeling at peace in your space, not just about ownership. Renting allows freedom to adapt and explore what truly works for me without being tied down to a mortgage. I love that you’re considering this for your future! There’s something really special about curating a home that brings you joy, no matter the ownership status. Wishing you the best in finding a space that truly fits you!
Danielle
My husband and I rented a home for many years for the same reasons, and it was the perfect situation for us. I always liked knowing that we weren’t tied to a house and had the opportunity to pick up and try something new in a different location.
Melonie
Sounds like such a great experience Danielle! I like knowing I can embrace new opportunities without being tied down. Renting, to me, offers a unique flexibility to explore different places and lifestyles without the long-term commitment of homeownership. I love hearing stories like yours—it’s a great reminder that home is about what works best for you in each season of life. Thanks for sharing!